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 Kata orang, kalo lo pengin punya jodoh yang sesuai sm keinginan lo, and then you have to define first what kind of people do you want, supaya lo nggak terlalu gampang "sparkled" by things yang sebenarnya bukan kebutuhan atau keinginan lo, just because "adanya itu" atau "kebetulan lagi kesepian aja".

So here's my list of criteria yg akan gue cari di jodoh masa depan gue, yang hopefully i can find them as soon as i can.

- height >170cm

- well behave

- nggak norak, following the trend

- bisa gue ajak diskusi soal apapun especially current issues going on in our country

- suka olahraga

- rajin ibadah, punya basic keimanan yang kuat, krn gue sangat amat perlu dibimbing

- nggak ngebosenin untuk sering2 gue ajak ngobrol

- punya pekerjaan yg settle, will be nice if the salary is higher than me

- pintar soal investasi dan mau belajar

- bisa solving issues, mandiri, nggak bingung mau apa di hidupnya

- hardworker. kerja keras banget jauh sebelum mikirin senang2

- treat me in the kindest way

- sayang sama keluarganya

- having good values in life

- nggak kaku, bisa gue kenalin ke teman2 gue dan keluarga

- nggak baperan dan menyedihkan

- strong, dominant

- able to tell me what to do

- have the power to handle an alpha like me

- good sense of dressing up, alias plis jangan jelek2 banget

- bisa bawa gue into the better

- have a great life. punya purpose dan ambisi. tau ke depannya mau ngapain, sebisa mungkin jangan mudah merasa cukup sama hidup "kaya gue" (again)???

- seru diajak traveling dan nggak mudah capek

- mau nemenin gue exploring places

- provider mindset

- JELAS. bukan cowok plinplan yang hari ini dan besok bicaranya beda

- nggak tempramen, nggak main tangan

- mature and have a great emotional intellegence

- boros oke, tapi harus PINTER dan AMBIS soal nyari uang. karena siapa yg mau stick sama cowok pemalas dan boros anw?

- prioritizing what needs to be prioritize

- menghargai gue sebagai pasangan

- bisa bahasa inggris! plis! gue ngga mau banget punya cowok yang UIA.. even the UIA cat is better tho?

- tidak menye2. i cant bare with men who's menye2. i need the STRONG ONES

- to be continue


Semoga, someday, ketika gue benar-benar siap, i can find this kind of person to spend my entire life with. As a partner, integrated by marriage.

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